The Self, The Natural and Nature vs Nurture.

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Nature versus Nurture: the natural inside you, and the Identity you chose. If you not a natural, how to become a natural? How did naturals become naturals if they weren’t already that before? If you are going to change your identity, then don’t you lose your congruence and as a result have weak inner game? Some say that it’s not a case of learning, but rather unstifling. How do you implement something that you don’t literally implement? How can all the RSD instructors, as different as they are all get consistent results. Are they all natural? But they are all so totally different. Tyler speaks about the dynamic existence of your identity. People change ‘who they are’ over time. Does this mean weak inner game? There is a lot of static noise in the community. All of which is accurate but missing one conceptual thread to tie it all together. The final piece of a puzzle that when complete reveals a conclusive model. My background is in science of psychology. One of the biggest issues that psychologists of all fields are concerned with is the question of nature versus nurture? Was the patient born that way, or did he develop [...]

Operation Charlie~Kilo

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OK. At any one time in my life i will be working towards several different goals simultaneously. keeps me occupied, keeps me challenged, keeps me entertained. One thing I always wanted to really conquer was my own aesthetics. I was shopping at a duty free store today and I realised that becoming a professional model would make an awesome career. It was as i sprayed sample cologne onto a tester strip that i noticed the abundance of free products i would get a s benefit of my photographic and cat walk obligations. As i indulged in this dreamtimez, it also occurred to me the difficulty that will accompany such an achievement. Not just anyone can become an internationally renowned model. Especially girls. ut as far as i understand for guy you just have to have the ripped abs, pretty complexion and above the bar personal grooming. A sense of style would be helpful, charisma and presence. I walked my way to the front of a duty free mirror and began to slowly nod in self agreement. It is time. Not fornication time. Dreamtimez. If anyone one could execute such a feat it would be me. I have the time and [...]

The Cultivation, and No responsibility.

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Relatively recently my own personal journey to understand women, based on front line gender skirmish and all-embracing attempts of academic de-codificatioin of the female psyche reached a pinnacle. The system is now apparent, and ready to be distributed. Never was I subject to the ‘community’ in the times of lines and routine stacks. Frankly, if the community was more an acting academy than a melting pot of identity level change I would have remained in the local university library trying to figure this stuff out for myself. Mum always taught me, be the gentleman, be the chivalry, be the bitch chode internet porn connoisseur. For so long I listened. After all she was more older and more female than I was. What mum didn’t know was that it was all about cultivating the naturally attractive guy inside all of us. Let me ask you something. Do you remember the first time you ever hit on a chick? You were probably six, maybe seven. You probably had a stir of squeamish feelings deep in your viscera as you engaged the object of your affections. Cue the harps and lets your eyes glaze over as you relive those moments. How did you [...]

Coming from the Right Place.

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People are always talking about how shit is going to work if you’re coming from the right place. This is not an issue of geographies, biological descent or compass bearing (but it is an issue of your internal compass) . Or more seriously, not the angle from which to generate your pick up persona, like a ‘tough guy’ or ‘sensitive guy’ or ‘homo metro-sexual guy’. (Nothing against gay guys, they’re very cool. I know plenty and they have an insight into style and chic that we simply don’t. I am however disappointed with guys who don’t man the fuck up). Coming from the right place is an inference to your communication style and is evident in terms of audibly microscopic intonations and miniscule fluctuations in physiological gestures. Women, the bearers of ten times men’s power of perception, would at best struggle to articulate what separates sex worthy from entertaining traits, while men all round the world are scratching their heads and considering the investment returns of a brothel encounter. Pre-game where you are coming from is largely dependant on you’re upbringing, emotional experiences, disposition and demographics. Social conditioning. Essentially anyone can learn anything, check out ‘brain plasticity’. This means that [...]

Elite Congruence.

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What I’m here to write about today is the notion of not being here to fornicate arachnids. A lot have asked me what the fuck does this mean. Fornicate means to have sex with, arachnids more obviously refers to spiders. We’re not here to fuck spiders, as in, were here to get down to business. And, I believe this is an issue only relevant to this forum. I don’t think there is too many other guys encountering this problem. Only the sex-worthy guys of the world encounter this problem. First, time to pre-establish the notion of sex worthy guy. This is the guy who is intrinsically higher value than the girl, indifferent, mindset of abundance, experienced positive and dominant. This guy exposes a girl to a range of emotions in the form of ‘chatting her up’. For a guy who is intrinsically higher value, his ability to attract her is simply a function of his ability to put his personality on the line. Charisma and a range of expression. Unapologetic. Cool, established, onwards. Now for these sorts of guys, lots get caught in some bullshit ego trap and think that it’s enough just to become the sex worthy guy and [...]