http://alexattitude.com Alex~ RSD - Official Real Social Dynamics Blog Fri, 17 Feb 2012 10:24:36 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 http://alexattitude.com/archives/628 http://alexattitude.com/archives/628#comments Wed, 15 Feb 2012 06:57:00 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/628 In short; your perception that a girl is acting bitchy toward you is a misunderstanding. You are actually having an intimidating (intense/in your face/extreme) effect on her and overwhelming her. Your perception of a ‘bitchy’ reaction (evasive/stand offish/slow to warm up/shut down/cold) has exactly the same behavioral traits as an intimidated response. The solution; embrace emotional congruence with ‘I am enough’ and realize girls’ reactions are not bitchy, but rather anxious responses to you because they are unfamiliar with you and/or perceive you to be high value. This automatic reaction is the same way that you – and everyone – automatically reacts when they feel social discomfort when exposed to someone they perceive has higher confidence (higher status/ high value/ more influential/ less reactive) than them. If you don’t yet comprehend that, read it again until you do. If you don’t understand that intimidated reactions are misunderstood as bitchy reactions, then you’re fucked. In misinterpreting these reactions, you’re on the way to hating girls and thinking they all suck… basically becoming a bitter then possibly evil guy destined to hate chicks and hate pick up as a displacement of frustration toward yourself. Countless guys out to learn pick up have suffered from this misunderstanding. Being drawn into hating chicks because of this misunderstanding is the dark side of cold approach pick up. I GARANTEE that if you’re drawn into the ‘chicks are bitches’ emotional headspace, you will never become good with girls and will even become further and further removed from enjoying social experiences. You will never grow, and you will never have success with cold approach pick up. How sad, you loser. ]]> http://alexattitude.com/archives/628/feed 47 http://alexattitude.com/archives/560 http://alexattitude.com/archives/560#comments Tue, 17 Jan 2012 15:19:43 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/560 Thought I would check in to the front page of RSDnation while I work away on new project here at my computer screen in Melbourne. (I’ve started writing the stories that have made my journey worth the while. They’re insane, I love them and I can’t wait to immortalise them for the mates who were involved... and hopefully inspire others to take action. It was always the stories that inspired me to want to develop superhuman social skills... the stories aren’t seen here enough... I'm bringing them back!) 2012 is my year.]]> http://alexattitude.com/archives/560/feed 49 http://alexattitude.com/archives/556 http://alexattitude.com/archives/556#comments Sun, 04 Dec 2011 05:33:19 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/556 The time is finally here to see what will happen to Timf Bhraowhn. Get the video all sorted out for some 720p resolution and let it load. First, why would I make this video? I work as a pick up coach. I write this blog to serve the purpose of getting better at pick up and teaching you how to be better at pick up. Prior to creating this video (and Chodes Night Out Yo!) several problems reoccurred in student after student. I also felt as though I had some personal issues building up that I wanted to address. I’d thought for a long time that a pickup parody video would help guys overcome their aforementioned reoccurring problems and help me to get a few things off my chest. Of course, the purpose of this video is to help. The purpose of this article is to teach you about how to learn game. Here’s how:]]> http://alexattitude.com/archives/556/feed 45 http://alexattitude.com/archives/555 http://alexattitude.com/archives/555#comments Mon, 28 Nov 2011 01:12:07 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/555 On the surface Japanese culture seems to be very introverted. Once you become embedded in the nightlife you realise the people are just as sexual as any other culture on earth. The Japanese cultural experiences lead to me a new idea: Physical Rapport. The purpose of Physical Rapport is to give the girl the ‘inception’ phenomenon where the girl forms her own idea (impulse/feeling/intention/desire) that she wants to move the interaction forward towards sex with you. This is the fastest way to convert cold approaches into sex (getting the girl). Getting the girl is easiest done once the girl has made her own decision that she wants to hook up with you. Therefore, make this your focus for the most effective way to pick up girls from cold approach. Physical-Rapport-style physical interactions with girls during cold approach pickup is a dynamic with intention to draw the girl into the ‘inception’ idea. Beyond this ‘inception’ idea, practising Physical Rapport causes many other deeper understandings of interactions with girls, bring you into congruence with “I am enough” and helps you develop abundance.]]> http://alexattitude.com/archives/555/feed 71 http://alexattitude.com/archives/553 http://alexattitude.com/archives/553#comments Sat, 12 Nov 2011 09:12:13 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/553 The next part of this video features Timf indulging in a touch of self help reading. Personally… I am massively opposed to self help reading in the field of learning how to pick up girls. The reason for this is a girl’s psychology is naturally attracted to a guy who thinks he doesn’t need help. Seeking self help consultation from other people in your life is excellent is almost every realm (finance, education, workout) EXCEPT cold approach pick up. As a reader of Alexander~ RSD materials realise that my message to you AS A CONSULTANT is that you are enough. My ‘self help’ to readers and bootcamp trainees is that you don’t need help in order to get girls any more, buuuuuut expert consultation can make you freakishly good and absurdly consistent. It really does take personalise work and demonstration for you to even comprehend that ‘you are enough’ could even be true, the purpose of actually doing a live program, not just reading the info online. The one step of internalising the ‘you are enough’ self help I provide is massively important for sure, and for the most part is the one thing that you’d take from this website before you are ready to graduate from the community. If you don’t get this message you could really turn out just like Timf. We’ve seen it on too many occasions....]]> http://alexattitude.com/archives/553/feed 67 http://alexattitude.com/archives/547 http://alexattitude.com/archives/547#comments Sun, 06 Nov 2011 05:46:53 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/547 First, the purpose of the practical tips. To reiterate, your goals in reading this site is to improve your pick up ability, you want to be able to inspire attraction in girls. To inspire attraction in girls you must take actions that cause you to be relaxed. There are things we know that you can to do to achieve ‘being relaxed’, things you can continually do to control how you feel, and therefore, maintain being naturally attractive. The the actual process you need to go through to achieve natural attraction in field is; -Relax, Monopolise Your Emotions, Express yourself (emotional sharing/emotional influence/ flirting/ causing arousal), girls are aroused by you (attraction/stimulated/excited/interested), be a consistent cause of arousal over an extended period of time(interaction), girl gets triggers that she is attracted to you, girls wanted to spend more time with you in an isolated situation, you get the girl. Your goal, what you want to do, is to be the source of a girl’s arousal. In other words, you are interesting to her, then exciting to her, then she feels a connection with you (interacting for an extended period of time), add physicality (‘kino’ or physical interaction) and she will becomes physically aroused by you (turned on).]]> http://alexattitude.com/archives/547/feed 52 http://alexattitude.com/archives/544 http://alexattitude.com/archives/544#comments Wed, 19 Oct 2011 13:47:31 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/544 http://alexattitude.com/archives/544/feed 43 http://alexattitude.com/archives/543 http://alexattitude.com/archives/543#comments Wed, 05 Oct 2011 09:23:38 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/543 http://alexattitude.com/archives/543/feed 20 http://alexattitude.com/archives/542 http://alexattitude.com/archives/542#comments Wed, 21 Sep 2011 16:34:27 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/542 http://alexattitude.com/archives/542/feed 15 http://alexattitude.com/archives/541 http://alexattitude.com/archives/541#comments Tue, 30 Aug 2011 15:09:51 +0000 admin http://alexattitude.com/archives/541 http://alexattitude.com/archives/541/feed 37