About Alexander~ RSD
Here he is for some part two fun. Daygame, trinkets and getting ready for the big night.
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The next part of this video features Timf indulging in a touch of self help reading.
Personally… I am massively opposed to self help reading in the field of learning how to pick up girls. The reason for this is a girl’s psychology is naturally attracted to a guy who thinks he doesn’t need help. Seeking self help consultation from other people in your life is excellent is almost every realm (finance, education, workout) EXCEPT cold approach pick up. As a reader of Alexander~ RSD materials realise that my message to you AS A CONSULTANT is that you are enough. My ‘self help’ to readers and bootcamp trainees is that you don’t need help in order to get girls any more, buuuuuut expert consultation can make you freakishly good and absurdly consistent. It really does take personalise work and demonstration for you to even comprehend that ‘you are enough’ could even be true, the purpose of actually doing a live program, not just reading the info online.
The one step of internalising the ‘you are enough’ self help I provide is massively important for sure, and for the most part is the one thing that you’d take from this website before you are ready to graduate from the community. If you don’t get this message you could really turn out just like Timf. We’ve seen it on too many occasions.
Let me remind you that my goal is to play the role of your consultant, to treat you like the king of your reality and help your make the most of it based on my experience, not to dictate to you as a guru or tyrant. Another clear goal of ours to provide to students is to take the role of doing what some consider to be unobtainable thus bringing it into our trainee’s realities. The demonstration of the seemingly unobtainable is still a instance of consultation, and in doing it paves the way for self belief in students, it doesn’t do it for you.
I also know that students, as “I am enough” as they are, sometime lack motivation to do what they know they should be doing. So another of my goals is to share my passion about what we do and share the stories that come from being very much in congruence with “I am enough” and being naturally attractive to inspire you to get out there reignite your own passion and pursuit of creating your own insane adventures.
So in creating the scene where Timf reads all the self help books I’m drawing your attention to how silly it can be to take too many self help books to seriously. Or, just reminding you that these are designed as consultants to you, as you are the king of YOUR reality. Self help reading is not the answer, but a step in strengthening (making more efficient, making more effective) the “enough” that you already are.
The alternative to reading self help is autobiographies, true crime, and memoirs. Some of my favourite books of all time are Jeffy’s Nineball, Tucker Max’s I hope They Serve Beer In Hell, Anthony Kiedis’s Scar Tissue, Underbelly The Australian true crime series and the stories of Australian sports stars Shane Warne and Tony Lockett.
Guys who get too into the self help stuff can end up like Timf Bhraowhn. Inside their head to the point of sociopathy following other people as their gods at the expense of their own connection to reality. These guys, sadly, do get to the point of absurdity with how seriously they take it.
Remember, its consultation, not a substitute for treating yourself like your own King. Every King needs their expert consultants so they can concentrate on being reliable and inspirational leader others need him to be.
Timf indulges in a little bit of daygame, and as absolutely weird as he is, he is at least a interesting to girls and captures their attention for a while. I think it would have been possible for him to have empathised with the girls, been more normal and done an OK job of creating a connection with them, and maybe get their numbers. But, like so many chodes, he just walked away. You don’t learn much, have much fun, or get very good results if you walk yourself away from your own approaches.
In the Timf approaches, the girls are interested and stunned that someone is approaching them, even though he is as weird as he is. There is something compelling and engaging about his confidence regardless of his attempt to use bad game. If the girls aren’t running away from the set during the day, and they are engaged then there is plenty of potential to do something with the interaction, trust that you are enough, even if the girls can’t keep up with your unforeseen cold approach and your superior level of social indifference. With day game approaches, just as with Timf’s examples, your more likely to be overwhelming, then to have bad game. Be patient with people who aren’t expecting you to approach.
Then its onto the trinkets! The old idea of peacocking is not a bad way to make yourself more socially versatile and does certainly give girls a reason to approach you if they want to. As you become more emotionally mature all you need is good eye contact to give girls justification to approach you. Some people do get trinket-happy which doesn’t help with social skills and causes you to look like a clown. Outside the known pick up community jewellery, bling, fashion and trinkets can be good to get conversations started but unless you are a solid product of a guy then your trinkets wont be enough to convert conversation into consummation. Sadly, trinkets can reinforce guys to decorate themself excessively as though getting more trinkets will give them more positive attention. Of course the more you rely on non-personality entities to get girls’ attention, the lesser your confidence in your own personality to keep girls’ attention.
The scene where Timf is licking the ice cream and leering on girls is my favourite part of this whole production. I tried to think of the creepiest thing he could do as though it was an “NLP visualisation technique” or something. It’s inspired by the scene from Bad Santa where the guy is creeping on the girls playing volleyball. I originally tried to film this short by hand holding the camera. It was impossible to do without a tripod because I couldn’t stop laughing at the image of him and the creeped-out our reactions that women had as they passed by. Women would actually accelerate to scurry away and avoid this this creepy fuck felating his ice cream behind dark moon glasses in the street.
Everyone has their own little pre-going out rituals, and Timf has his own creepy version that includes rubbing his dick to cartoon porn and applying olive oil to his hair. I often get asked what instructors do for their pre-game psychological preparation at home before we go out. The answer is nothing. After enough experience being in the club and talking to girls on cold approach requires no specific rituals. Being socially comfortable everywhere is the reality that you grow into through previous experience. I would go as far to say that any specific pre-game rituals will heighten your outcome dependence about the night to come, making you more anxious and less cool. I’ve seen some pretty funny pre-game rituals, and this is a production of a combination of rituals I’ve seen in my travels.
As the producer of the videos it was fun to think of a funny combination of game clothes that could present Timf as a try hard. I was in Amsterdam the week before so it was easy to gather plenty of glowing electric peacocking shit for Timf to sport on his big night out. The intention was for him to look like some kind of Scandinavian Guido, a human representation of a Nokia phone.
On the street he actually had a crowd gathered around cheering him while I was taking the shots. He marched all the way to the club where he waited in line for 20 minutes. For better view we had him rush the security guards at the front door to try to get in. He was diplomatically turned away about four times before the bouncer finally turned him away with force. Though he was dressed like a pill-freak people didn’t look twice at him. A testament that people really are mercilessly centred on themselves.
After being turned away from his first club he he did get into another club. The club that would become the stage for his big night and conclusion to this little movie…
Part three featuring his big night and movie resolution coming soon.