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On the surface Japanese culture seems to be very introverted. Once you become embedded in the nightlife you realise the people are just as sexual as any other culture on earth. The Japanese cultural experiences lead to me a new idea: Physical Rapport.
The purpose of Physical Rapport is to give the girl the ‘inception’ phenomenon where the girl forms her own idea (impulse/feeling/intention/desire) that she wants to move the interaction forward towards sex with you. This is the fastest way to convert cold approaches into sex (getting the girl). Getting the girl is easiest done once the girl has made her own decision that she wants to hook up with you. Therefore, make this your focus for the most effective way to pick up girls from cold approach.
Physical-Rapport-style physical interactions with girls during cold approach pickup is a dynamic with intention to draw the girl into the ‘inception’ idea. Beyond this ‘inception’ idea, practising Physical Rapport causes many other deeper understandings of interactions with girls, bring you into congruence with “I am enough” and helps you develop abundance.
The next part of this video features Timf indulging in a touch of self help reading.
Personally… I am massively opposed to self help reading in the field of learning how to pick up girls. The reason for this is a girl’s psychology is naturally attracted to a guy who thinks he doesn’t need help. Seeking self help consultation from other people in your life is excellent is almost every realm (finance, education, workout) EXCEPT cold approach pick up. As a reader of Alexander~ RSD materials realise that my message to you AS A CONSULTANT is that you are enough. My ‘self help’ to readers and bootcamp trainees is that you don’t need help in order to get girls any more, buuuuuut expert consultation can make you freakishly good and absurdly consistent. It really does take personalise work and demonstration for you to even comprehend that ‘you are enough’ could even be true, the purpose of actually doing a live program, not just reading the info online.
The one step of internalising the ‘you are enough’ self help I provide is massively important for sure, and for the most part is the one thing that you’d take from this website before you are ready to graduate from the community. If you don’t get this message you could really turn out just like Timf. We’ve seen it on too many occasions….
First, the purpose of the practical tips. To reiterate, your goals in reading this site is to improve your pick up ability, you want to be able to inspire attraction in girls. To inspire attraction in girls you must take actions that cause you to be relaxed. There are things we know that you can to do to achieve ‘being relaxed’, things you can continually do to control how you feel, and therefore, maintain being naturally attractive.
The the actual process you need to go through to achieve natural attraction in field is;
-Relax, Monopolise Your Emotions, Express yourself (emotional sharing/emotional influence/ flirting/ causing arousal), girls are aroused by you (attraction/stimulated/excited/interested), be a consistent cause of arousal over an extended period of time(interaction), girl gets triggers that she is attracted to you, girls wanted to spend more time with you in an isolated situation, you get the girl.
Your goal, what you want to do, is to be the source of a girl’s arousal. In other words, you are interesting to her, then exciting to her, then she feels a connection with you (interacting for an extended period of time), add physicality (‘kino’ or physical interaction) and she will becomes physically aroused by you (turned on).
Here is Timf Getting ready for his Big night out.
The legend and purpose of chodes night out dates back to the beginning of pick up times. Ever since guys started approaching girls with the intention of implementing learned skills to get better results, and ever since guys would go out to meet people as a means to transform themselves through fast tracked life experiences, there has existed a fucked up syndrome…
PLAYING TO NOT-WIN.
This is a very common affliction, one that gripped me at one stage. A disease that even effects the best instructors you know from time to time. In fact, in the case of instructors – or any guy who is ‘supposed to be good with girls’ – this disease can be even more intense due to the risk of compromising self perception coming from failure, especially if witnessed by others.
Readers, how’s it going? Morning in Berlin here, Organising my iPod with some recent chill-out albums to help appease the stresses of crying babies on airplanes,consecutive insane late nights and jetlag.
What we want is the opposite of stress, in your game the minute that the stress or frustration levels begin to rise so does your ability to have fun, respond well and express yourself creatively in the moment.
The first priority of your game CANNOT be a procedural or operational focus, it has to be something simpler and less prone to cognitive grind (and stress) that ensures that you do everything you can to avoid tightening into a ball of stress and getting into a frame of social vampire-ism.
So, welcome to the romantic revolution, listen carefully and I will elaborate and answer questions that are bound to follow!